Today, I would like to introduce all you New Age Nerds to a conceptual construct that has truly transformed not only my coaching practice, but also all of my personal relationships. This tool has permanently shifted my life's perspective back toward SELF LOVE. It has also deepened my connection and understanding of true forgiveness towards the entire population on this planet! I now refer to this Super Heroic Habit as, 'Tapping Into Inner Innocence.'
My own childhood was fraught with fear, confusion, and an overwhelming sense of self judgement. After my birthfather abandoned our family in Southern California when I was 3, my mother was left without money or the support system of her large family. So she moved us across the country to the greater Washington, D.C. area. As you might expect, this entire brutal ordeal took quite a terrible toll on her own still, very young (she was just 24) emotional psyche. Not to mention the psychological damage it caused within my sister and me!
I became an extreme introvert, (hard to believe that now!) and kept all my emotions hidden better than a 'Where's Waldo' book. My sense of SELF was very low indeed. And I ate daily sandwiches of extreme self judgement and loathing. Pretty much the perfect recipe for dysfunctional behavioral patterns in all areas of my life. Especially in the dating department. If she NEEDS me, she'll never LEAVE me was my mantra. Ask how that worked for me.....? Not so much! ;0)
It's no wonder the second I got the opportunity, I moved back to Los Angeles. There was always a crux burning within me solidifying my desire to return to the "scene of the crimes." To heal your wounds you must first face them. And my Super Power of emotional intelligence informed me of this truth ever since I can recall. And so I often thank the Universe for granting me the stewardship of this form of energy in action. It's been a soulful life saver!
My ten year jaunt in LA was where my spiritual transformation really took off. Nearly 25 years ago, the Left Coast was more progressive in its acceptance of spiritual modalities than the DC area. And I took full advantage of its welcoming spiritual nature. And during my 10 year healing Superhero's Journey within LA's concrete jungle, I came across a much different comprehension radical power of the true meaning of FORGIVENESS. My life has never been the same since.
The long held, standard practice of teaching FORGIVENESS, relies on the principality of separation. As though YOU and I are two separate beings. When in truth, separation is a fallacy. FOR WE ARE ALL ONE! Any experience of separation is simply our EGO in play. It's very job is to keep us feeling separate and disconnected from one another. Even more damaging, holding us back from experiencing our ONENESS with the Universe. Thus we are often taught that forgiveness is a form of pardoning ourselves or another for a perceived 'wrong doing.' It's the ultimate form of judgement if used under that pretense.
For once you relinquish the EGO's hold over the dominion of your mind, you become realigned with the power and understanding of TRUE PERCEPTION. The remembrance that all of life is part of the ONE GOD MIND. You see yourself in all others. The SELF becomes fully realized as the great I AM. You begin to live from the space of your Super Heroic Higher Self. And once again, you become your brother's and sister's keeper. Suddenly, the manner in which you wield the power of FORGIVENESS is transformed.
As it so eloquently states in the book God I Am, "This is what is meant by remembering God, or the truth, for one's brother. He gives his brother's separation away, therefore he forgives! This is the true and only meaning of forgiveness. Forgiveness, as it is commonly seen, first establishes guilt and then pardons it. Again, perverted truth, twisted by the Ego's Law of Reversal. Now true perception has the exact same effect, although it is still a step away from Oneness. It is still cognizant of separation, but is no more part of it. It stands apart from the dream. It recognizes separation for what it is: only error, NOT sin - therefore it cannot see guilt whatsoever. Not seeing guilt, it only sees innocence. This is True Perception's way of giving away, of forgiving separation. This is where the miracle comes in to heal."
And what a powerfully disruptive healing process the true nature of forgiveness becomes in our lives. It is the most effective manner of tapping into your INNER INNOCENCE. A realm where judgement in any form vanquishes back behind its illusionary veil. And we stay steadfast in the moment of NOW. A state of spiritual enlightenment. Fully connected to SOURCE. And in our brothers and sisters we see a reflection of our SELF. And all of our co-creations become joy filled opportunities for-giving him/her back to themselves. Assisting them in awakening from their slumber so they re-member who they truly are. Their authentic SELVES. What a wonderful world it can still be, if we all begin to practice the transformative power of incorporating INNER INNOCENCE into our daily lives...........................
Our INNER INNOCENCE knows no form of condemnation. It seeks only to reunite. To see ourselves and others in pure divinity. It showers us in LOVE BUCKETS. It sees nothing but pure potentiality with 20/20 vision. What the EGO hoards, it gives away freely and without expectation. It assists us in understanding the gifts behind our former false beliefs. By showing us what we assumed were wrong doings, actually lights a path toward the places within us where healing LOVE and LIGHT can still be applied. Especially in those places still causing us extreme pain, blocking us from abundance in all its forms (health, wealth, love, joy, empathy, and compassion)
The most deep seeded form of healing comes through the use of our INNER INNOCENCE. For it allows us to be freed from any misconceptions of separation. Instead of staying in victim consciousness, we begin to build a solid foundation of courage and confidence. Rather than living in fear of what LIFE MIGHT DO TO YOU, this- now SELF realized you- starts to happen to life!
And I now use this tool every single day. It has shown me the true path toward forgiveness. Any individuals and their supposed 'wrong doings' toward me have been shifted from anger and judgement back towards a LOVING LOVE. Through this revelatory paradigm, many of my wounds have healed. Daily, I now practice receiving all my fellow brothers and sisters through the eyes of ONENESS. And am once again free to inhale their individual brilliance in all its forms. I seek only to unite. And awaken others to the same TRUTH..............
SUPERHEROES IN TRAINING TAKEAWAYS
Start incorporating the process of tapping into your INNER INNOCENCE immediately!
Like everything else it is a process that must be nurtured. One terrific place to start is by
remembering that you cannot make a MISTAKE! Life is not a test. Everything in your experience is an opportunity to learn and grow. You are something akin to a Spirit based scientist and life is the palette from which you experiment. If something doesn't 'work out' simply learn the lesson and try again. Transcend the catabolic energy that infuses the term "mistake" with that of a misstep. Which is "totally innocent" in nature. BIG DIFFERENCE! A Misstep has the same vibrational resonance as Guilt. And guilt is a terrific teacher. It's job is to help show us where we still might need to learn, grow, and expand our own consciousness! And so we become much more eager to readjust and realign our actions the next time a similar situation comes around. On the other hand, a MISTAKE holds the same energetic offering as SHAME. When we feel that WE ARE whatever it is that we have done. Shame is incredibly nasty and becoming an epidemic on this planet. The habit of shaming builds on fear, hate, and self loathing. No way, Jose. By now, all of us New Age Nerds know to return that hot plate back to the chef! Until we get the order served to us just the way we planned it to be.
Another suggestion is to practice the art of receiving others in the NOW. Without any preconceived notions based on their past behavior. Practice seeing them as being innocent in nature. Doing the very best they know how. Even when their past behaviors may have been less than acceptable! Especially when they have pressed upon your very last nerve! You will be amazed with the transformation in all your relationships when you stop holding people back by continuing to put them "within a box" of their former selves. And instead, begin to envision them as the Greatest Versions of Themselves.
And please stop with the notion that "people don't change." When you choose to see only the magnificence in a Spirit, you are creating a loving space for them to continue to grow and learn. And more often than not, this co-creative process will birth the greatest version of who they really are. Right before your very eyes. Try it. You'll LOVE it! And more importantly, so will they! I promise!
INNER INNOCENCE has the ability to transcend limitations without fear of judgment. It gives you the tenacity to tackle bigger goals and manifest MAGIC. It assists you to stay within every moment of NOW. Where abundance in the form of creativity, courage, and confidence flows freely like an 'All Your Soul Can Drink' spiritual station. So pony on up and order a few of its Cosmic Cocktails. Happy hour is on the Universe!
BE SUPER HEROIC!
Nerdmaste,
Jeffrey Louis Martinez
And please stop with the notion that "people don't change." When you choose to see only the magnificence in a Spirit, you are creating a loving space for them to continue to grow and learn. And more often than not, this co-creative process will birth the greatest version of who they really are. Right before your very eyes. Try it. You'll LOVE it! And more importantly, so will they! I promise!
INNER INNOCENCE has the ability to transcend limitations without fear of judgment. It gives you the tenacity to tackle bigger goals and manifest MAGIC. It assists you to stay within every moment of NOW. Where abundance in the form of creativity, courage, and confidence flows freely like an 'All Your Soul Can Drink' spiritual station. So pony on up and order a few of its Cosmic Cocktails. Happy hour is on the Universe!
BE SUPER HEROIC!
Nerdmaste,
Jeffrey Louis Martinez
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