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I was introduced to the term ‘Wounded Healer’ on the very first episode of Super Soul Sunday I ever watched. And it has been a part of my spiritual paradigm ever since. In the episode, they were discussing the fact there are certain individuals who seem to go through extraordinary life challenges, as well as an amazing amount of pain and suffering. And unfortunately, many of these chosen SOULS are labeled with having bad luck, or making poor decisions that are the root cause of their various life struggles. And yet, most often, that is simply NOT the truth of what is taking place behind the spiritual scenes of their experiences. Many of these special individuals are called to be WOUNDED HEALERS.
The term itself is derived from Mythology. In Greek myth, Chiron was the wisest of Centaurs and the archetype of the wounded healer. He was accidentally wounded by an arrow which had been dipped with the blood of Hydra. Chiron was immortal though, and so that arrow's venom sentenced him to eternal pain, suffering, and terrible torment. In his lengthy search for a cure to his own condition, the byproduct became an ability for him to help others. He became a teacher who spent his days spreading the healing arts he had learned through his own struggles. The very act of helping others with their suffering greatly aided his own angst. As Buddha says, “Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion.”
While Greek Mythology may have originated the idea behind a wounded healer, the energy behind this powerful archetype has continued to spread throughout all generations. It is at the core of The Superhero's Journey. In the final act of the Journey, the Hero, after overcoming an inordinate amount of struggles, pain, and suffering, brings the knowledge collected and lessons learned back to their tribe to share this newfound enlightenment.
However, there is a distinct difference between curing someone from their particular malady, and HEALING them from their pain so they can resume their life's purpose. Perhaps it can be surmised as the difference between science and art. Effective healing energy flows when two hearts intimately connect. There is a deep trust because of the mutual understanding both have from experiencing things that are quite similar in nature. I know, for instance, when I meet someone who has suffered from Crohn's disease, they truly understand my pain. In fact, we call ourselves ‘The Crohnies’ when we meet. We share a common yet unspoken badge of honor from our malady. This doesn't mean that the only people who can assist and support me have to suffer from Crohns, but as Carl Jung said, “The doctor is effective ONLY when he himself is affected. Only the wounded physician heals.” What I have found is I tend to resoundingly connect and resonate with others who have dealt with their own severe forms of trials and tribulations. They just seem to have a common form of knowingness and understanding of which I resoundingly relate to. The depths of their souls are so full of mystical magic and wisdom. I can get lost in this esoteric energy for days!
Jung believed that the best healers were those who had undergone a transformation of sorts from their own suffering and set of life struggles. It offered to them an authentic piece of soul based compassion. The Wounded Healer understands at a profound level what his client feels, because he/she has experienced something of a VERY similar nature. The Wounded Healer is thus able to feel a profound empathy, and not just sympathy for their client. And that makes a whalloping difference in the relationship! It's as if a spiritual channel of connection emanates from both healer and patient which causes a sense of soul filled understanding and trust.
Admittedly, my life has had MORE than its share of experiences that many people lable as bad luck. Literally casting caustic epithets such as “Jeff just can't catch a break. He has the worst luck.” And sometimes it has been beyond painful and frustrating to be engaged in such a manner. In an old post called ‘A Dark Knight of the Soul’ I describe the moment when I realized that luck had No Thing to do with my life experiences. I believe I was called to be a Wounded Healer and have since made it my life's purpose to use what I have learned during my Superhero's Journey to support and assist others who are still in their own particular sense of HELL. A BATMAN with a spiritual MISSION!! Yeah...I Like That! As Thomas Jefferson said, “Who then can so softly bind up the wound of another as he who has felt the same wound himself.” Utter perfection...........
So today I ask you, do you believe that you can find a way to use your personal and unique set of hardships and pain to assist others? Because in a way, I believe we are ALL meant to be Wounded Healers. That doesn't mean it has to become our life mission. But how much human suffering could be transformed if we had the courage and were VULNERABLE enough to share our hurt and illusionary failures with our fellow brothers and sisters?! Furthermore, I believe it is time for us to make this one of our collective earthly missions. We need one another NOW more than ever!
BE SUPER HEROIC!
LOVE-SERVE-INSPIRE
Nerdmaste,
Jeffrey Louis Martinez
Jeffrey Louis Martinez
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